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Be the Coffee
This may be an email that circulated but this is the first time I've seen it and would like to share:
Be the Coffee
You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as soon as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see."
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft.. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. . The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain.. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.
If you don't send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message!
So What Are You? May we all be COFFEE |
Posted: 2:13 PM, Jul. 21, 2009 |
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Renting to College Students~A New Adventure!
Well, I have to say that renting to college students is quite a different experience than renting to families. These are wonderful young people, to say the least. They have stars in their eyes about going to University of California at Merced, and certainly their parents are so proud of them. I am too. HOWEVER. . . there are some things that are really important to consider when renting to college students, like . . .
Are they housebroken? Seriously. One conversation I have with these young people is that by leasing a home, they are becoming responsible for someone else's $500,000 asset (well, $200K since the foreclosure market hit). It's really important that they respect the property, and that they respect the neighbors.
The major problem is that there isn't much entertainment in Merced for the college group (Hey, are there any entertainment investors out there?), so they have a lot of weekend parties. With weekend parties comes noise, many cars, and trash on the neighbors lawns. One of our neighborhoods dealt with it by picking up all the garbage from their respective lawns the next morning, and dumped it on the offending house's yard.
Yes, they need to be housebroken.
The young men do not know their own strength - like when they've had a few beers and they go to open the door and forget to turn the knob - oops, there goes the door frame! Help us if they have more than a few beers!
Renting to a group of gals is not as scary. For the most part, they don’t know how to use a screwdriver, but that’s not a sin. What’s bad is when they don’t know how to make a bank deposit properly. This is University, kids.
Remedies? Well, in an effort to keep the lawns alive, I've decided to include a gardener with the rent. I'd also like to include housekeeping services on a bi monthly basis, but the students seem to object to that. "I can keep my room clean". But that's not the problem. The problem is "who will keep the rest of the house clean?"
I'd love to hear of some solutions others may have found. Right now, I have an individual lease for each student with their parents as guarantors - unless they can show their own financial viability.
What are your thoughts about renting to college students? |
Posted: 5:39 PM, Jun. 22, 2009 |
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Don't Let Defeat Thoughts Get You!
Well, this year has started off very well, and February is showing we are well on our way to a wonderful 2009! On New Year's day, a friend of mine asked, "What are your goals and aspirations for this year?" What do you wish to manifest in your life? I love this "restatement" of New Years's resolutions.
I recently saw the movie "What The Bleep" which scientifically describes how the choice we focus upon actually is the one that will manifest for us in the context of multiple choices, Scientifically, we really can choose what we wish to have be manifested in our livees, all we have to do is choose that one wish, then hold on to that idea, thought, action, and let all the others go. It is only when we "hold on to" the less desirable ideals, that the best one is prevented from manifesting.
This is a spiritual principle as well. We can say prayers for a certain outcome, but if our subconscious mind hasn't already CHOSEN that outcome, it will not come to pass. The reality comes into existence with our visualization of the outcome. Visualization is the choice for what we wish to come into existence, so if what we fear rules our thoughts, there is no chance for what we wish to manifest.
So, Don't Let Defeat Thoughts Get You! (DLDTGY)
This is particularly so with some of the properties we have. Oh my, some areas of the city are so hard to get good renters! But, I know there are very good people who can help to "bring up" a neighborhood by their higher, more ethical standards.
Also, when we prepare a house for rent, we do a "energy cleanse" so that the next people renting will not be affected by the past energy of the house if it was negative. All too often, we have moved out an undesirable tenant, just to get more of the same. It is so important to clear the home of the old energy, and refresh with conscientious effort in order to pull in a higher calibre tenant.
What about our own homes, and bodies? What energies do we wish to dismiss as no longer needed or wanted, and what will they be replaced with?
Simple exercise here:
I dismiss this {name pattern} ,
and replace it with {name new pattern}.
I dismiss tenants who do not pay rent and replace it with conscientious rent paying tenants.
I dismiss tenants who are careless with those who love to take care of the homes they rent.
I dismiss procrastination and replace it with acting proactively.
I dismiss worrying about the next bad tenant and imagine someone lovingly taking care of my home.
ad infinitum. . . . .
If we begin replacing our negative thoughts and patterns with those that take us in a forward direction, I really believe we will be amazed at how our lives are transformed.
More of this kind of thinking can be found in the book entitled "The Secret" however, the teaching has been around for a very long time.
With heaven in our hearts, the best will follow! |
Posted: 12:48 PM, Feb. 6, 2009 |
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Being a Property Manager in Merced
It took me three months of retirement to decide that I was too young to be retired, so I contacted the broker we purchased our home through to see if they were willing to open a property management department. If so, I would be willing to build it. I had at least 20 years of administrative work behind me for small and large corporations, had been president of my homeowners association for five years, and found that I enjoyed that type of work. The only need I had to fulfill was obtaining my real estate license, which I had by November.
I began managing just before the real estate boom, so I was very blessed to contract approximately one new unit a week for the first year. The second year was when the market began to die, and years three and four are what we are in now. However, even with the slowdown in sales, the business increased and remained steady at 100 single-family homes.
So why become a property manager, and why do so in the Merced area? Well, let's start with property management. This is a field that requires a lot of will power, tenacity, patience, and people skills - everything that is required of a real estate agent. The difference is that you are working with the same people for a much longer period of time, so the relationships become more personal with tenants and owners, and having a bad day can't be written off very easily. There is always the call to remain professional, but as a manager, I have found that it's really important to listen to the heart of the tenant and he heart of the owner. I sometimes call myself "The Matchmaker" - I temporarily wed an owner with a tenant. This is a business where it is important to keep people happy. The tenant, if treated badly, disrespects the home they are living in. (Sometimes they do that anyway). The owner who doesn't feel his property is being taken care of properly, feels resentful.
The biggest lesson I've learned is - there are only about 30 stories out there in "Tenant Land." They take on different characteristics, but they are basically the same. I've learned tenants want to know someone cares about what happens to them, and that living in a home is a win-win situation for the owners and for themselves.
There are about five kinds of owners. The owners I enjoy working with the most are those who have made a long term investment into the community, and care what happens in Merced in the long run. These are the people I call angels. Through their investment, they are helping a smaller community with people who have not-so-great wages to afford renting a home. I know each of these owners will receive their wings on judgment day. Some have been ever so patient.
Some investors have only come to rape and pillage our small town. They are only concerned for their capital gain with no thought to the problems left behind when they've driven up the prices through flipping properties too rapidly, and then abandon the town when it didn't make money for them. The impact? The City hired more police and firefighters to handle the increased growth, but then in the downturn, with the loss of properties and tax income, we've lost the income to sustain our police force and fire departments. A la increased gang activities. Many of our social services have disappeared. The City also had to revise the infrastructure of the water and sewage plants to accommodate all the new building. Our water utilities rates have almost doubled in four years. They won't go down again just because we have a glut of foreclosures.
Well, I guess I wandered off the main topic, but the reason I'm a property manager is because I have come to care about this little town in the middle of California. And I want to see the people who own the homes that are being rented have a successful venture as well as seeing good people who live here have a nice home to rent.
I never have a boring day . . .
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Posted: 12:05 AM, Jan. 19, 2009 |
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How Did I End Up Managing Property in Merced?
Six years ago, if someone had told me I would be a property manager in Merced, California, I might have looked at them with raised eyebrows, an expression of disdain, and responded "Nope, Not Me!" I lived in West San Jose in a nice little pocket at the border of San Jose, Saratoga, Los Gatos and Campbell all at once. It was 30 minutes to the beach, one hour to San Francisco, and an abundance of forms of entertainment after 9:00 pm. not to mention all our brothrs, sisters, children and grandchildren lived there as well.
Then in 2004, my Handsome Husband said, "Let's just invest in some property in Merced. After all, the UC system has decided to build a new University there! It would make a good investment. Well, $250k and 3 months later, we were moving all our personal possessions from our condominium next to the freeway in San Jose to a nice little parcel at the end of a cul-de-sac in Merced.
The biggest difference we noticed right away was the silence. OMG! There were no "whoosh" noises coming into our living room and bedroom from cars speeding along the gray ribbon on the other side of the burm next to our parking area. We moved in June, and it was so amazing to keep our windows open and hear the birds, the breezes rustling the leaves of the five trees in our back yard, and we affectionately watched our two rabbits bound back and forth, chasing each other in what I'm sure they considered "bunny heaven." It was their first exposure to real grass after living in our cement carport for 2.5 years.
Merced is everything I never wanted, excessive heat in the summer, and much fog in the winter, and it's flat, flat, flat with a bump here and there which could be classified a grade, but no real "hills." Growing up at the foot of Blossom Hill in San Jose spoiled me. The city itself is about 5 miles in each direction, which has its good points - It only takes 10 minutes to get anywhere (maybe 15 during traffic hour). And, you won't find freeways running through the middle of the city - only a never-ending string of stoplights, which are now timed for traffic flow. Bicyclists ride in every direction without helmets, and there are no health food stores (other than the health food section in Raleys).
But Merced does have something special! Wherever you go if you smile at someone, they smile back at you, and if you say "Hi" they're likely to start up a conversation with you. Maybe there aren't hills, but there is a very nice walking path along Bear Creek. Maybe we don't have a huge symphony orchestra, but we do have a playhouse, and it is a very personal experience to attend a performance – and, Merced's Multicultural Art Center is one of the best. There are lots of nice things about Merced and its surrounding areas. I hope to bring some of this to you.
So why did I choose Property Management in Merced? That's the subject of the next blog . . .so stay tuned for some of the very interesting encounters of Property Management in Merced County. |
Posted: 2:49 PM, Jan. 16, 2009 |
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