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Carlsbad Relocation A to Z

Blog by Jeff Dowler
Encinitas, California

An informational source for people who are relocating, with a particular focus on moving to the Carlsbad area of North County San Diego (and nearby coastal communities), with advice, guidance and true stories to help you on your way and make it a great journey, from a REALTOR� with plenty of personal (4 major moves, most recently from Boston to Carlsbad, California) and professional relocation experience. Are you running into problems selling your home? Need to find a new one quickly? Never moved before and haven't a clue? You'll find some great tips on how to solve your relocation issues here. Or ask me a question any time and I'll share some solutions or tell you where to get more information. CA DRE License #01490977

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Carlsbad Relocation A to Z

A Summary of Relocation Tips (Post #3)

Jan. 9, 2008
Categorized in: The Move Itself
Moonlight Beach in Encinitas, California on New Year's DayHere's my next summary article on relocation tips, Relocation is NOT for Dummies.

1. Relocation to another state or across the country is a challenge, and there is so much to coordinate. Making a list is a smart idea to keep things on track and not miss anything. There is packing to do, movers to hire, possibly kids and/or pets to worry about, and so much more.
Get the lowdown on these issues here.

2. Some of you who are relocating may have a RELOCATION PACKAGE from your current or new employer. I would suggest reading this summary of the things you should consider.

In case you missed the earlier summary articles:

Summary of Relocation Tips (Post #1) - Emotional and psychological stuff

Summary of Relocation Tips (Post #2) -  Selling your home and house hunting


If I can help in any way with YOUR relocation, please don't hesitate to
give me a call or TEXT ME at (760) 840-1360
or email me.


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Using Feng Shui to Sell Your Home

Apr. 23, 2007
Categorized in: Selling Your House

Selling your home? Need to get an offer quickly? Feng Shui may be your answer.

Read this article on using Feng Shui to get your home in shape for those buyers. Kathryn Holt is a Feng Shui expert with 14 years experience - she contributes to my Fans of Coastal San Diego Blog but since this is so relevant to home buying and selling I wanted to make sure you saw it. And if you are not in the San Diego area, she may be able to help you find a Feng Shui expert to help...or you can do a google search.

You might also show this to your REALTOR (unless you are one)! Just a hint...

Bring out the best . . .  in your listings!
Capturing an offer is all about making the right first impression.  Our services blend beauty with comfortable living, simply by creating a healthier, more desirable home.  We offer:
 
Organizing services:  Physical clutter is one of the top two Buyer turnoffs, no wonder houses with clutter take longer to sell.  Let us show you that a little clearing and un-cluttering can make a big difference.
 
Classic Feng Shui:  If you're interested, allow us to take "standard staging" to the next level through Feng Shui.  With fourteen years of experience under our belts (and a proficiency in all of the advanced disciplines), you will receive all of the benefits Feng Shui has to offer. 
 
Additional clearing work:  Every so often you encounter a property that feels a bit off . . .  It may look (superficially) attractive, but something just doesn't feel right and, unfortunately, potential Buyers pick up on it.  Subtle energies (like high levels of electromagnetic fields, geopathic stress, stagnant energy, or a persistent looming feeling) can all sabotage your efforts.  Before you reduce the asking price, ask us about our space clearing services.   Your listing may just need to be cleared and refreshed energetically. (And, don't worry, we've seen it all.)
  
Don't forget, our consultations make great closing and house warming gifts for your clients.
 
For more information, please contact:
 
Kathryn Holt, Feng Shui Resource
858.492.8506

The Home Buying Process - A Synopsis

Jan. 10, 2007
Categorized in: House Hunting

I thought it might be useful to provide a summary of the home buying process here in California (some of the general activities will be similar in other states, but check with your agent on the specifics). I've talked about most of these issues at one time or another so this is really an overview/summary.

PRE-APPROVAL

  • Done BEFORE you start looking so you know your budget
  • NOT just pre-qualification - this really has no value to you
  • Lender will review income, assets, debt and credit scores to determine how much you can borrow
  • Review types of programs, rates, etc.

HOME SEARCH

  • Identifying WHAT you want and need
  • Searching in your price range on the Internet, attending Open Houses, driving around neighborhoods
  • Select your REALTOR
  • Tours with your REALTOR (house hunting trips if you are out of state)
  • THE DECISION

MAKING AN OFFER

  • Offer to Purchase in CA is 10 pages and includes a Buyer Advisory - verbal offer is meaningless
  • Accompanied by a deposit ( talk with your agent about amount) - often up to 3%; goes to Escrow once agreement is reached
  • Offer present to listing agent; sellers review and respond
  • Any counter offers must be in writing; finals signed copies of agreement and counters provided to all parties

CONTINGENCY PERIOD

  • Deadline date agreed on by buyer and seller
  • Receive, review, approve and sign all disclosures; check on insurability; approve Preliminary Title Report
  • Conduct home inspection (and any other desired inspections), request any repairs, if applicable, and resolve with seller
  • Apply for loan; appraisal done by licensed appraiser; loan commitment issued
  • All contingencies must be removed by due date unless extension agreed on in writing

PREPARING FOR CLOSING

  • Make plans to move (obtain estimates); pack
  • Set up utilities in new home; arrange to stop utilities in current home
  • Provide any final documents to Escrow Company
  • Arrange wiring of any funds to escrow
  • Set-up and complete final walk-through before closing
  • meet with escrow to sign all documents (or if remote, meet with their representative)
  • Once everything received and approved by escrow. transfer of property is complete and docs will be recorded
  • CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR NEW HOME - BUY A BOTTLE OF CHAMPAGNE AND CELEBRATE!

What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale? (Part 6 of 6)

Dec. 28, 2006
Categorized in: Role of a REALTOR
Tagged with: appraisal, closing, realtor, sellers

Here is the final post in this series on "What Does a Realtor do in a Sale."  If you missed any of the earlier posts, you can read them here (Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4 and Part 5).

The Appraisal
  • Check to make sure the bank has scheduled the appraisal
  • If necessary, provide comparable sales used in market pricing to Appraiser
  • Follow-Up On Appraisal to ensure timely processing with lender
  • Notify buyer’s agent when appraisal has been completed
Preparing for Closing
  • Make sure all paperwork is reviewed and signed, and apporpriate copies provided to the necessary personnel
  • Ensure all parties have all forms and information needed to close the sale
  • Confirm closing date and time with individual handling the closing (varies by state)
  • If necessary, assist in solving any title problems (boundary disputes, easements, etc.) or in obtaining Death Certificates
  • Coordinate with buyer's agent for final walk-thru prior to closing
  • If appropriate in the state, obtain and review closing figures to ensure accuracy of preparation
  • If applicable, arrange for  "Home Owners Warranty" before closing
  • Attend closing (again, this will vary from state to state)
  • Make necessary changes in MLS to reflect sold status
  • Close out listing in MLS and office files
  • Send thank you card to buyer’s agent
  • Make sure checks are distributed appropriately
  • Assist seller with any last minute issues at closing or afterwards
  • STAY IN TOUCH with seller

Hopefully this series has provided you with a better idea of what a REALTOR does when working with homeowners to sell their home. Each situation is unique, and some agents provide more, or fewer, services. Please don't hesitate to let me know if you have any questions or I can be of assistance.

What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale? (Part 5 of 6)

Dec. 27, 2006
Categorized in: Role of a REALTOR

Here is the next post in this 6-part series. If you missed any of the earlier posts, you can read them here (Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4).

Tracking the Loan Process
  • Contact lender to ensure all necessary information has been provided
  •  Follow loan process through to the underwriter and contact lender (or buyer’s agent) weekly to ensure processing is on track
  • Keep seller informed of status of loan
  • Relay final approval (i.e., loan commitment) of buyer's loan to seller
Home Inspection
  • Coordinate buyer's home inspection with seller's schedule
  •  Attend home inspection as seller’s representative
  • Review home inspector's report (if shared by buyer - required in some states but not all); provide feedback to seller
  • Find out from Buyer's Agent if buyer is going ahead with the deal, and what, if any, repairs or adjustments are being requested in writing
  • Discuss requested repairs and/or adjustments with seller and communicate response(s) to buyer’s agent
  • Ensure seller's compliance with Home Inspection Clause requirements
  • Recommend or assist seller with identifying and negotiating with trustworthy contractors to perform any required repairs
  • Negotiate payment and oversee completion of all required repairs on seller's behalf, if needed
  • Provide necessary documentation to buyer to show completion of repair work

Stop back later this week for the final post in the series.

What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale? (Part 4 of 6)

Dec. 24, 2006
Categorized in: Role of a REALTOR
Tagged with: offers, realtor, sellers

Part 4 of this series on "What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale" focuses on activities once an offer is obtained. If you missed any of the earlier posts, you can read them here (Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3).

The Offer and Contract
  • Receive and review all offers submitted by buyers or buyer's agents; make sure all information is submitted, including pre-approval letter and copy of deposit check
  • Present all offers to seller as soon as possible, preferably face-to-face; provide written copy to seller for review (some buyer agents may request permission to present the offers themselves to the listing agent and sellers).
  • Counsel seller on offers and answer all questions. Discuss merits and weaknesses of each offer
  • Review buyer's qualifications and discuss offer with buyer's agent
  • Negotiate offers on seller's behalf
  • With sellers, prepare and convey any counteroffers, acceptance or amendments to buyer's agent(s)
  • Ensure necessary paperwork flow between sellers and buyers regarding offer, counteroffers, etc.
  • Once offer has been accepted and signed by seller, deliver signed offer to buyer's agent and provide copy to office file
  • Record and promptly deposit buyer's earnest money in escrow account (process varies by state)
  • If property will continue to be shown determine "Under-Contract Showing Restrictions" (depending on seller’s request)
  • Cancel planned public and broker open houses if applicable
  •  Advise seller in handling any additional offers to purchase that may be submitted between contract and closing
  • Change status in MLS to reflect being under contract

Since the process of making and finalizing offers may vary quite a bit from state to state, there may be many other activities that your REALTOR will engage in during this phase. If there are any questions, please feel free to let me know.

What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale? (Part 3 of 6)

Dec. 22, 2006
Categorized in: Role of a REALTOR
Tagged with: marketing, realtor, sellers

Part 3 of this series on "What Does a REALTOR Do in a Sale?" is fairly lengthy, as it focuses on the activities a REALTOR might engage in while marketing a home. Not all agents will be this comprehensive, and some situations will not required the same amount of type of marketing.

If you are interested in more details on this series, you may visit my website and request the full report via email.

Once Property is Under Listing Agreement
  • Review current title information, establish square footage, examine plot plan if available, verify loan information
  • Prepare showing instructions for buyers' agents and agree on showing times/requirements with seller
  • Identify Home Owner or Condominium (if applicable) Association manager or contact, if applicable, and determine condo/HOA fees
  • Request copy of Condominium Association bylaws and Master Deed, if applicable
  • Prepare detailed list of property amenities and assess market impact
  • Have extra key made for lockbox (if used) and for office
  • If leased property, obtain copies of lease(s); verify rents and deposits
  • Install signage, brochure box and lockbox
  • Finalize marketing plan
  • Discuss how offers are to be handled, especially in a multiple offer situation
  • Discuss dual agency and what it means
  • Take additional photos for MLS, flyers and advertising
  • Enter listing into MLS, including photos, and proofread; email copy to seller for review
  • Provide seller with signed copy of the Listing Agreement and a printout of the MLS Listing within 48 hours; revise MLS listing as needed per seller’s feedback
Marketing The Listing
  • Create print and Internet ads
  • Determine dates for Public and Broker Open Houses and confirm with sellers
  • Communicate dates and times of Broker Open Houses to area brokers
  • Coordinate showings with owners, tenants, and other Realtors
  • Prepare flyers & feedback faxes
  • Ensure copies of marketing brochure are available at the property and in the Brochure box
  • Record 24-hour 800# Hotline property information (if used - most agents don't do this as I do)
  • Email new listing to all contacts and current buyers
  • Upload listing to company website, personal website and other Internet sites used in marketing plan
  • Mail  "Just Listed" notice to all neighborhood residents
  • Reprint/supply brochures promptly as needed
  • Feedback e-mails/faxes sent to buyers' agents after showings
  • Discuss feedback from showing agents with seller to determine if changes will accelerate the sale
  • Provide regular feedback to sellers based on agreed-upon timing/method (phone, fax, email)

Please let me know if I can answer any questions or provide further information.

What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale? (Part 2 of 6)

Dec. 21, 2006
Categorized in: Selling Your House

Here is more information on the role of the REALTOR in a sale. If you missed the first post, you can read it here. Please keep in mind that this is not an all-inclusive list, nor will most agents do all these things, hence the competitive edge of some (yep, I'm braggin' a bit here! ).

Listing Appointment Presentation (brief summary)
  • Tour property with seller to review interior and exterior obtain information about selling points, repairs, and any defects
  • Provide an overview of current market conditions, trends and projections
  • Review agent's and company's credentials and accomplishments in the market, company profile, etc.
  • Present CMA (market analysis) results
  • Discuss a pricing strategy based on professional judgment and interpretation of current market conditions
  • Discuss goals with seller to market effectively (what is target market, etc.)
  • Explain use of Multiple Listing Service, Realtor.com and other Internet marketing
  • Explain agent's role in screening for qualified buyers and to protect seller from curiosity seekers, as well as other fiduciary duties
  • Present and discuss strategic master marketing plan, including dates
  • Discuss listing agreement (terms and conditions, dates) and seller representation
  • Discuss added value of using a REALTOR, commission structure, and answer any final questions

The next post will review some of the things an agent does regarding marketing and howing the home, once the listing has been signed. For more information, please see my Seller's Page on my website.

What Does a REALTOR do in a Sale? (Part 1 of 6)

Dec. 20, 2006
Categorized in: Role of a REALTOR

The role of a REALTOR in the sale of a house is complex, far more so than many buyers and sellers realize. This is because many of the acitvities go on behind the scenes.

Since you are going to be working with a REALTOR to help sell your house during your relocation (unless you decide to chance doing it on your own - read my series on "Thinking about Selling Your Home Yourself."), it would be beneficial to you to understand what the role entails.

Here are some of the things a REALTOR does before even meeting with a seller to discuss a potential listing.

Pre-Listing Activities
  • Make appointment with seller for listing presentation
  • Confirm listing appointment and call to reconfirm
  •  Review pre-appointment questions and information needed from seller
  •  Provide Pre-Listing Information Package to seller (surprisingly, many agents DO NOT do this like I do)
  •  Research all comparable currently listed properties
  • Research sales activity for the past 6 months (standard review period) from MLS and public records databases - in some markets, such as one where prices are rising or dropping, the time period is less
  • Research property tax roll information, property ownership, details of lots, legal description, zoning
  • Prepare "Comparable Market Analysis" (CMA) to establish fair market value - I do a RIGHT PRICE ANALYLSIS (see my website for more information on this)
  •  Verify legal names of owner(s) in county's public property records
  • Prepare listing presentation package with above materials and MLS information
  • Perform exterior "Curb Appeal Assessment" of subject property
  • Make sure marketing materials are assembled to review with seller
  • Take pictures of property for mock up of feature sheet (again, not something a lot of agents do)

If I can answer any questions or provide other assistance, please let me know.

More on Choosing Your Realtor to Help with Relocation

Nov. 30, 2006
Categorized in: Finding a REALTOR
Tagged with: buyers, realtor

I wrote earlier about some things you should consider as you are seeking a REALTOR to help you find a home in your new location. I just spent some time helping clients of mine in Boston who need to sell their condo in order to move to San Francisco, and in doing so I thought I would share some more thoughts on how to select your REALTOR in this type of situation.

While knowledge of the industry is important, and having experience working with people who have relocated (even in state but from another area) is critical, it is also important to work with someone who puts your needs above their own. Sounds like a simple matter, right? Well, it isn't. You need someone who will take the time to understand your needs, now at the beginning of the process but also throughout the entire process. Being a good listener is essential. You need someone who can add value to the process - while the person you select needs to listen to you and understand what you need, s/he should also be able to provide expert advice and propose solutions to help solve problems as they arise. This is particularly true if you have never done this before.

You also need someone who can be flexible in their style, and adjust their work habits to accommodate your situation. You very likely will be dealing with different time zones and work schedules. You may prefer email to phone calls, and very frequent vs. infrequent contact. You should feel comfortable talking about what works well for you and your needs if the agent does not ask you directly. If you sense resistance or some discomfort then that person may not be the best fit.

If I can help you formulate some questions based on your particular situation, OR you would like me to help you find a qualified REALTOR with my network of agents around the country, please don't hesitate to ask.

Considering Selling Your House by Yourself? (Part 5)

Nov. 27, 2006
Categorized in: Selling Your House

This is the last in this series of issues that all sellers thinking of brokering their homes themselves should review, and CAREFULLY consider. If you are dead-set on forging ahead on your own, good luck!  And don't hesitate to ask me for help and advice, as I will be happy to support your efforts with suggestions.

Read Part 1,  Part 2Part 3  and Part 4 here.

 Price Setting - this is probably the MOST CRITICAL task at hand, even for those working with a broker. There is so much competition, and unless you are in a seller's market (and few are), pricing is going to determine IF you sell, and WHEN. Setting the market price is not easy, even for professionals with lots of knowledge and experience. The KEY POINT to remember, if you remember nothing else, is that the market sets the price, not you the seller, nor any agent. No matter what you think it is worth, the market, and a willing and able buyer who wants YOUR house, will determine what it sells for. So, how ARE you going to set your price? Do you know what other homes have sold for in your area? Do you know where your competitors are priced? Keep in mind that buyers who look at homes for sale by UNREPRESENTED SELLERS are looking for a deal. Since you are not paying a commission to a listing agent, they will look for this additional discount when they make an offer, at a minimum...and it will typically be a low-ball offer to begin with.

 Friendly, neighborly advice - I can't tell you how many times I have heard that a seller's friends, family or neighbors gave them advice on pricing and how to sell the home themselves. Are these people experts on pricing and selling? Can they really be objective and tell you what the truth is about your home and it's salability? Do they know any more about the actual market conditions than you do? Or do they just read the papers and watch TV like you do? Keep in mind these people, while good intentioned, have no vested interest in your home selling - only YOU do (and an agent who is listing your home if you go that route). Just because your neighbor, who has the same house, got $X for his home 6 months ago does NOT mean you will now, with the changes that the market has seen. Be careful about the friendly, neighborly advice you get! And what you listen to. Your friends and neighbors aren't selling...YOU ARE!

 Competition - this is another critical issue. Do you KNOW who your competition is? And why they are your competition? Not just on your street but in the larger neighborhood and community? Do you know the details of other properties on the market that will be compared to your home (amenities, age, size, bedrooms, interior and exterior condition, pricing, seller concessions)? How can you insure that YOUR home is not the one that makes the competition a better value? Part of this is pricing, but there are other factors as well. What can you do to be sure YOUR home comes across as the best buy, not your neighbor's?

The value of a REALTOR is that YOU do not have these issues to worry about, at least not directly. For more information on how a REALTOR can add value to your transaction, visit my website.

Considering Selling Your House by Yourself? (Part 4)

Nov. 26, 2006
Categorized in: Selling Your House

Here are some more issues to seriously consider if you are thinking of selling your home by yourself. Part of the value of a REALTOR is that you do not have to worry about these things.

Read Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 here.

 Exposure - This is a buyer's market, for most parts of the country. In order to sell a home quickly and for top dollar, it is CRITICAL to have maximum exposure in the marketplace because there is so much competition. Some neighborhoods have more than 10 homes for buyers to choose from. How will YOU get the exposure you need? And do you know what your target market is? You can't put your home on the MLS with out the aid of an agent (even one that does this for a fee and provides no other services (some areas have an MLS of thousands of agents). You also can't get your home on Realtor.com, probably the most widely used site for home searching by buyers. how many people are actually going to drive by your For Sale By Owner sign? How will the market know your place if even for sale? There are websites that cater to FSBOs, but many others that only list properties to agents - so you are limiting your Internet exposure (and 80% of buyers these days search on the web for their new homes).

 Qualifying Buyers - Do you know how to determine is a buyer is qualified to purchase your property? What questions do you need to ask? How do you know they are qualified buyers and have the financial wherewithal to meet the mortgage approval criteria? Are you actually comfortable quizzing prospective buyers on their financial status? Do you really want to show you home to a buyer who can't afford it but is having fun dreaming? Or checking out your decorating sense?

 Staging your Home - Is your home really ready to show buyers? Do you know how to create an atmosphere that will encourage buyers to envision themselves living there? What mood does your home convey to people walking up to the front door, or even driving by? Do you know what amenities buyers are searching for and how you can make sure buyers are aware of these things in YOUR home? Are there some design or functional faux pas in your home that needs to be taken care of, and do you know what this is?

I hope you find this helpful in your thinking. Please feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.

Selling in a Buyer's Market - Part 2 of 2

Nov. 3, 2006
Categorized in: Selling Your House

Here are some more suggestions for coping with selling in a buyer's market:

  • Consider a home inspection before you list – learn what problems your home might have (particularly important if you have owned your home for more than a few years) and take care of these issues, particularly obvious defects.
  • Be flexible – don't be too restrictive in allowing showins - you may miss out on a good buyer.
  • Be prepared to negotiate – buyers expect a seller will negotiate in this market and they will likely bring you a less-than-full-price offer, and amy ask for other concessions as well. Buyers are more in control now. Discuss how to approach this situation with your REALTOR.
  • Expect that selling will take time – it may take weeks or longer, even if you do everthing right. Many buyers are worried now and believe prices will drop further. Some are taking a wait and see approach.

My blog on ActiveRain has more details on these points - take a moment to stop by. As always, when planning to sell, it makes sense to contact a knowledgeable REALTOR in your area to get all the information you need so you can make a wise decision.

More questions? Email me, or visit my website.

Selling in a Buyer's Market - Part 1 of 2

Nov. 1, 2006
Categorized in: Selling Your House
Tagged with: pricing, realtor, sellers, staging

Since you are relocating, you really need to sell...right? Here is the first of a two-part series of some strategies to get you started, now that the market has shifted to become much more buyer friendly. These are not in any special order but price is most important:

1. Price your home competitively – now is NOT the time to try to get what an identical house sold for a year ago, or 6 months ago.Variable Range Marketing (VRM) with a price range is worth considering and can work well in a Buyer's Market. Ask your REALTOR to explain how this works and why.
2. Hire a strong REALTOR – don’t try to sell on your own to save the commission. And DON’T hire ab agent who promises to get you a certain price, OR pick the one with the highest recommended listing price. Remember point #1.
3. Have a well-developed marketing plan – maximum exposure is key in this time of huge inventory.
4. Stage your house to sell – your home, becomes a house, and a piece of merchandise that must be marketed. Staging is NOT decorating. National stats indicate that, on average, staged houses sell sooner and for more money.
Need more information - visit Sold on Coastal California. You can also check out my blog at ActiveRain which provide more details on these issues.
Stay tuned for Part 2 on this topic on November 3.

Buying a Home with a Contingency

Oct. 17, 2006
Tagged with: contingent offers, realtor

If you have NOT sold your current home but need to buy something in your new location before you actually relocate, I would consider the following.

As a REALTOR, I usually recommend that people sell their current home before they buy another. There are situations when the alternative will work, but in a slower market you cannot control how soon your current home will sell, so buying before you sell (unless you can qualify to have two mortgage and can financially swing it) is very risky. What happens if you can't sell it - do you lose the other house? Do you reduce the price drastically? Do you rent?

However, you may find yourself in a situation where you have no choice, since you are relocating a significant distance. The good news is that in many areas (the Southern California market included) because of the slower market, the inventory, and the long marketing times, many sellers are willing to consider accepting an offer that is contingent upon the buyer selling his/her house. So that may help you get the house you want while waiting for your old home to sell (in a sellers' market this typically is not the case, since there are many buyers competing for a few homes and sellers do not need to consider such a contingency).

If this seems likely, I would first have a detailed conversation with your REALTOR helping you to sell your home about the market and what you can expect. And I would be VERY AGGRESSIVE about pricing your home to sell, perhaps lower than any other comparable home, so you can sell quickly. This is NOT the time to try to make a few extra dollars, since you can end up spending more (mortgage, interest, utilities, etc.) if your home doesn't sell for a long time.

Also talk with the REALTOR in your new location to ascertain the market conditions there. Will you even be able to make a contingent offer? Are there lots of homes on the market right now, and what is the marketing time? Discuss the possibilities of needing to make a contingent offer so your REALTOR is prepared and can advise you accordingly.

Make sure both REALTORs have each other's contact information. If you need to make a contngent offer you and your REALTOR will likely need to provide informaton about the home you are selling (the MLS #, price, and perhaps the listing itself, in order to document that it is, in fact, on the market - your REALTOR at home can help with this, and keep your other REALTOR up to date on events, which can make a difference in working through the negotiations).