RE: How Would You Advise YOUR Relative???
Created by:Deede Wockenfuss, Licensed Real Estate Agent, Chandler, AZ
Date: November 22, 2007, Number of Replies: 2

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Tony Couch says, "Your relative should stick to his WORD
and hold on. If he has overextended him/herself that is an issue beyond the real estate market."
and hold on. If he has overextended him/herself that is an issue beyond the real estate market."
Tony, I guess I forgot to let you know that I am also a Loss Mitigation Counselor for major servicers. Because of this, I know that my relative is not alone in this situation and that he did not cause it. Had he cashed out his equity, or bought large ticket items in the 3 years he was in the real estate business, I would agree with you. But, this is NOT his fault. The house next door just sold at auction for $57,000!!!! He paid $300,000 for his home! This is NOT a normal cyclical real estate change. It is devastation in our area and thousands of homes in the same neighborhood are going to foreclosure and forcing the market down. Again, IT IS NOT HIS FAULT! My relative has a FICO score over 800. He did not get this score by NOT paying his debts. This current real estate downturn is as abnormal today, as the hot 2005 market was then.
The cause of my relatives' situation is greedy investors, and crooked lenders. If everyone else in his neighborhood in his situation is bailing out, why should he be the only one to "keep his word"? To do so is to set himself up for a lifetime of debt he can't ever get out of. I just can't advise any client or relative of mine to do such a thing. Even the major servicers I work with have told me that some borrowers in these situations should just file bankruptcy and start over.
Speaking of bankruptcy, boy, has Congress blown it this time! They changed all of the laws to 'protect' lenders and banks of credit cards. Even if you file bankruptcy, you don't clear your credit card debt. Guess what the bankruptcy lawyers are telling their clients? They are telling them to PAY THEIR CREDIT CARDS, and NOT pay their mortgage. If they go bankrupt, their mortgage goes away, but some of the credit card debt stays. Tony, there are just too many obstacles keeping the honest consumer from lifetime debt and poverty. I just can't agree with you. You are a good man to be so "moral", but unfortunately keeping the debt and "keeping his word" to the lender were not one of the options I asked for help with.
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Deede Wockenfuss
Marketing Manager
Assist 2 Sell, Buyers and Sellers Best Choice
480-558-0555
Go To:
www.4GilbertHomes.Com
for your FREE "Real-Time MLS Market Report!
Deede Wockenfuss
Marketing Manager
Assist 2 Sell, Buyers and Sellers Best Choice
480-558-0555
Go To:
www.4GilbertHomes.Com
for your FREE "Real-Time MLS Market Report!

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