Steele, I was rather surprised at your post saying, more or less, that it's okay to let the investor/buyers negotiate directly with the bank/lender...
It may be different now, with all the ShortSales, but when I listed REOs, the banks refused to deal with the investors/buyers. They wanted everything to go thru the ListingAgent, knowing it would be handled properly, full signatures, proper addenda, and no verbal nonsense. I doubt if many of the listing agents are boobs, a very small percentage... and most are quite adept at procedure(s).
If the agents look like boobs, it's undoubtedly due to lack of communication from the lender.... that always makes the listing agents look bad.
Most agents wouldn't even take a ShortSale listing unless they have hearts of gold and a willingness to do whatever it takes.... again, yes, a tiny percentage are boobs, I don't deny that, I see it frequently... but the vast majority are not, and the banks know that...
I would advise my seller not to give a green-light. And, whether or not our licenses are in jeopardy, it could open us up to lawsuits.... we lose control, we lose bargaining chips, etc.
This is a tiny example, although not ShortSale specific:
My listing, had offer, was in negotiation... buyers wanted to come back and look around again. I made sure to be there, owner was there... I forewarned him NOT to allow them to engage him in conversations about the offer. He was teaching them about the pool pump & sprinkler system, etc... and while in the garage, he said he would let them keep his lawnmower, and the deep-freeze, a few other yardcare items, and some other stuff. I almost had a heart-attack. These were items we could have used as bargaining chips.
I later chastised him, nicely, and explained why, so that he wouldn't do it again with any other buyers. As it happened, the deal did go thru with those buyers, but this is an example of how things can go haywire.... loose lips sink ships, etc. You never know what some junior staffer at the bank might be saying... you don't know what the investor might blurt out... and any of that could potentially hurt my Sellers' position. I am very protective of my clients.
The only reason, I could see, of letting an investor deal directly with the lender would be one of laziness or indifference. If I'm wrong, and if this is the new "norm", please correct me.
If an REO bank wants to negotiate drectly with investors, that's one thing, but for ShortSales... I don't think so.
Lindy in Houston