Dad is 94 and very sure-footed. After all he was a champion halfback soccer player. But, we are not talking about his jitterbug dancing skills. This is about his entry into the world of technology by buying a Jitterbug phone.
Each day Dad showers, shaves, dresses up and drives his Buick downtown to meet his buddies for lunch. His “gang” is the younger crowd (70’s) and some have learned to use computers for email and to check stock portfolios. Most of them have cell phones. Dad had to have one. But he has been concerned about taking this step into advanced technology. After all, his friend, Moe, had to return his phone because he found it too confusing.
Jitterbug has two versions of phones. One has only 3 “big” buttons – 911, My Choice, and Operator. However, he wanted the control of the full keypad version. So we bought the phone, which I took home to program (put in the contact names and numbers) on my Mac. We then scheduled some time to get together for a lesson.
I had programmed the first screen for Voice Dial, thinking that he could just speak into the phone with the name of the person he was trying to reach. For those of you not familiar with the Jitterbug, the screen displays questions and has simple “yes” or “no” buttons for responding. So the first screen displays “Voice Dial?” and I tell Dad to press the yes button. Now everything else should work by voice command instead of buttons. A computer voice says “state name.” Dad is very polite and respectful. He says, “I’m sorry but I did not understand. Please repeat the question.” The computer says, “I did not understand your answer. State name.” When he repeats that he doesn’t understand, the computer says “good bye.”
Now I explain that he should say only the exact name on his phone list. So we flip the phone open, he pushes “yes” to the “Voice Dial ?” question (we are making progress); and, the computer voice says “state name.” He says “Rick Home.” The computer voice says, “Did you say Rick Home?” and he says “Please call R-I-C-K” to which the computer says, “I did not understand your answer”.
Since our learning session, I have called him on his phone several times and left voicemail messages. No response. When I see him I ask why he is not answering his phone, to which he responds that he leaves it in the car so that it doesn’t bother anyone with the ring. I suggest that then he should check his voicemail for messages. He says that whoever it is will call back.
We are still within the 30-day return period.
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Comments
Comment by: Heather Muller
- Jun 18, 2009 6:50:49 PMHillarious! I've thought about getting a Jitterbug for my Dad He's got a flip phone that answers as you flip it open. You just have to say "Hello". He can't stop pressing buttons, so he presses the closest button to his right hand & hangs right up on you. And he's only 65!
Comment by: Judy Sepac
- Jun 18, 2009 7:27:12 PMI can relate to your story. My husband is going to be 82 in August. He had insisted he had to have a cell phone. So, I bought him one, a very simple one through AARP. I explained to him how to use it. He tried it. I explained it again. And again. Finally he was angry with me (& himself) because he couldn't figure it out. Lots of complaints. Really the phone was simple to use.
Complaints were: Buttons were too small (they were larger than usual). He couldn't hear it (we turned it up and he still couldn't hear it). Couldn't figure out how to turn it off. Couldn't figure how to turn it on. He tried several time to test it to call me, but still could not understand it or figure out how to answer it. After paying for it for 6 months, with no calls on it, I canceled it. He makes calls from the grocery store, where they all like him and know him. It's a toll free call from there and he really doesn't go many places without me. Not easy getting older, you know, and I expect we'll all get there, if we're lucky enough. The latest is when I had him get his eyes checked. It'd been two years. He needs glasses to drive. He won't wear them if he gets them. He's due for his test at the license bureau and if he passes that, he's off the hook. If not, NO Driving without wearing glasses. PERIOD.
Comment by: Sue Nett
- Jun 18, 2009 10:33:06 PMWhat a riot and I also can definately relate. My hubby just turned 81 and has technical "challenges". He's just great in sooo many ways, but, these things like puters, cell phone thingys, gps's, etc, etc. drive him up the wall. I've lost count of how many times he's "lost" his cell phone and the searches we've been through tracking it down. It's amazing but we have always found it!! We live in Hendersonville, NC and when meeting my sister and her friend half way in Charles Town, WV (my daughter lives there as we used to) it got lost in an Italian restaurant. We didn't realize it until the next day as we were heading back to NC. Amazingly they had found it and my daughter retrieved it and mailed it back. He has conquered answering it and making calls to the folks I programmed in and has finally mostly figured out how to hear a voice mail msg.
At 67 I'm even suffering from technology overload. Even the TV these days can become a challenge if something malfunctions!
Thanks for a good laugh.
Sue
Comment by: Malcolm Waring
- Jun 19, 2009 5:24:36 AMThe complaint about not being able to hear is valid. I have had a variety of phones from a variety of carriers since 1998. In the early years most of them were Motorola and some of them you just couldn't get loud enough to hear when outside in NYC.
Then I had Nextel for awhile, Motorola phones again, and those are still the loudest ever made. Nextel was very big with contractors so they better make them load for their customers on noisy job sites. Oh, and many don't hear so well from running power tools without ear plugs either.
Malcolm Waring, REALTOR®, e-PRO
Pocono Homes for Sale
Comment by: CBR - Linda
- Jun 19, 2009 8:30:50 AMI have to tell you that you have provided me with a much needed laugh when reading about your various experiences with technology and "older" partners and parents.
My husband passed away three years ago at the age of 84, and he hated computers, cell phones, and anything related to "higher tech" items. Just pushing the wrong button on the tv - and losing all control of what he wanted to have happen - would leave him sitting in a snit until I got home from work and could resolve the problem.
When he was in his 60's, he served as ACO for our town. When I offered to put the dog licenses on the computer, with all pertinent info, he thought I had lost my mind. To him, nothing compared to the handwritten documentation and notes (that he carried on 3x5 cards -or stapled to my walls!).
He gave up his license in his mid 70's because he didn't feel up to going for new glasses, and I assured him that he could still renew with just a driving test if he decided to go for it within 3-years. He never did, which was a relief to me and the rest of the family. Nice that I didn't have to make that decision for him, which would have been very difficult.
A wonderful gentleman who is very missed, but certainly a challenge when it came to "modern day" inventions. Perhaps just opting for a "Life LIne" , push button emergency device is the answer, just to be sure that help comes to these great people when they are alone, and it is needed.
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