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Feb. 21, 2007
Krystle and I are continuing with our ministry work which is all basically
the same as I’ve been telling you so I don’t want to bore you with the same
stories. But I do ask you to pray for us as we are trying to "wrap" things
up by the beginning of March so we can have the last 2 weeks to see people
and say our good-byes. CCP has released us – we are done with our work
their. We continue to stay busy with the profiles for TULIP and I’ll be
teaching a class on "managing money" to the youth at Lifespring in to the
2nd week of March (just on Thursday’s for 2 hours).
I must be a target for pick-pocketer's. Not once, not twice, BUT 3 times
they attempted to steal from me and only the first time were they
successful. I think I shared with you the first two…the first one when they
stole my phone, the second was in Mombasa when they tried to steal my
camera. This third time was in a matatu (where I was a target before I even
got in). It went something like this: 1 guy was sitting behind me, then a
guy on my left and one on my right – they arranged it that way making me
move in the middle so at that time I said, "you better not be trying to pick
pocket me!" The two on the side had "briefcases" that are empty that they
probably use to store their stolen goods and the one behind me continued to
pull at my seatbelt trying to distract me. I was concerned about the
valuables in my pockets so kept them covered where as my backpack on my lap
just had some paper work and hand sanitizer. I kept getting my seat belt
tugged so I turned around, shoved the guy and yelled, "this is my seat
belt…get off!" The very next second the guy next to me had his "briefcase"
over my bag so then I began to fight him off by shoving him and his
briefcase now to discover my backpack just magically opened on its own. I
gave this guy a piece of my mind as well almost crying when I was done
yelling! This all happened in less than 90 seconds. As the 3 thieves were
alighting I yelled, "Nice try!"
There is an 8 year old racist Indian girl in our estate. Some time early
last week I was walking in to the front gate as she approached me and said,
"My friend told me to tell you that mzungus smell like mafi." So I asked
her what that was and she quietly whispered, "Mzungu smell like poo-poo." I
was so shocked and kind of mad so I just replied, "Tell your friend to come
tell me himself." One or two days later the girl approached Krystle saying
the same thing, and the day after that approached another mzungu - Canadian
Christie living with us. Once we all discovered she had been saying the
same thing to us I told the girls we should poop in a bag and give it to
the girl. That would show her! We didn’t do it.
Friday Krystle and I were craving a hot fudge sundae. So we went to
Nakumatt where they have an upstairs restaurant and cyber. First we got our
ice-cream and then checked our email. Then we discovered "Mexican" food on
the menu and ordered a beef chimichanga. It tasted like mongollian beef. I
have stocked up the carbs here staying away from the meat as much as
possible. At home I don’t eat much meat anyway, but when I get home, Shad
please cook me a steak and when I eat that one, please bring me another one!
Have I mentioned before how people generally arrive late? On my way to
Lifespring I have to take 2 matatus. On Thursday to my first connection it
took about an hour because of a jam (later I heard they had some roads
closed due to a shooting some where) and it should have taken me no more
than 5 minutes. Then I crossed the road to get my next mat and traffic
wasn’t even moving. So what did I do? I decided to go in to Nakumatt, eat
breakfast (the place where we got our Mexican Chinese food). By the time I
came out about 40 minutes later the jam had gone. I got to Lifespring about
2 ½ hours late. So if I come home and am SLOW or late, please be patient
with me.
I keep mentioning how fast the time is going by but it’s so true. Imagine,
I used to say "6 months is too long" and now I’m saying it is not enough.
Please continue to pray as time is ending and am feeling many things. May
God bless you and all you are doing! I can now count to 20 in Swahili. I
won’t count for you but don’t have any thing else good in Swahili to share
with you – "uma shiba?" Are you full? See you’s…
Feb. 13, 2007
It has been a while…there’s lots going on. Happy February to you all. 1
month down in 2007, 11 to go. Can you believe January has already come and
gone?
Sunday, Krystle and I were treated to a new Thai restaurant inside a posh
hotel in town. I went to use the restroom before we ate so I could wash my
hands. I was shocked with happiness as my hands were touched by hot water.
We have hot water at the house, but only in one place…when you turn the
water heater on to take a shower. Otherwise you boil the water if you want
it hot. I was just so surprised I had forgotten about hot running water
from a sink and how much I enjoyed it.
There have been many birthdays in the house. Yoland’s was the end of
January. We mostly just hung out at the house and me, Yoland and her mom
went to the fish market. Fish is really expensive and a real treat so
Yoland’s parents were treating everyone for her birthday. I used to pass by
the fish market almost every day because it is in Ngumo, the first place we
lived. And every time I passed it I would hold my breath. Now I want you
to imagine the fish market in Seattle. And imagine this fish market here is
nothing like it…ha-ha! It’s at the beginning of all the kiosks to Kenyatta
Market (where all the yummy fruit is), the floor is dirt, the dead fish are
staring at you and they are being deep fried (so much food here is deep
fried… "chips" are very popular). For those of you who know that fish and
sea food is my favorite thing to eat (sike) I was rude and didn’t eat it…but
I did try it.
I was having pain with a tooth in the back of my mouth and was referred to a
dentist. She told me I was brushing too hard, blah blah blah and something
about my roots or nerves being exposed AND that "we can take care of that
right now." WHAT? I didn’t have any time to prepare myself for a needle
being stuck inside my mouth, plus all that screeching, unbearable drilling
sound. During the "procedure" she asked me if I was nervous because that sucky
thing that sucks out your nervous saliva was sucking nothing, because my mouth
was so dry. YES, I WAS NERVOUS! I didn’t have time to prepare…in the States
it’s, "okay such and such is wrong so make an appointment for next week and
we’ll take care of it then." They give you time to prepare for all that
scary tooth stuff they do…but not here. But one thing is for sure, you can
actually afford the work done with out going into debt over one tooth!
James the gecko came to visit me. I told you before about the geckos in our
old house. Well, they live here too AND they are all related and look out
for each other (I knew that mama gecko wasn’t happy I moved in and threatened
her baby). One night I was in the kitchen washing out my dish and out of
the blue something lands on my hand. Before I could finish the thought,
"what is this", I realized it’s a gecko flying through the air to attack me
and I shook it off as fast I could (I think while jumping back) and freaked
out. I now have a sign on my door that says, "no gecko’s allowed…everyone
else karibuni." (welcome)
We are busy with a new project which I am asking for you guys to pray about.
Krystle and I want to "take TULIP back with us." We got the "go ahead"
from the directors at TULIP to present their ministry to a church at home in
attempt to fund raise and get sponsors for these girls to go to school. It
would be something like compassion child, with Krystle and I being the
middle person between TULIP and a church. This is obviously just in the
"dream" stage and don’t know where it will go, but we are praying God will
use us and raise support for these girls to go to school. Please pray for
us…Where to start and how to go about doing such a responsible and dedicated
task?
That’s about it from here. At CCP we are finishing up some documentations
and putting together some paperwork and presentations for their home church
in California. Things at Lifespring are still in process with the life
skills training. Right now I am just trying to take it one day at a time,
otherwise I find myself mourning my departure. 5 weeks will be here what
seems like tomorrow, but I want to make sure I cherish every last moment and
spend time with the loved ones dear to my heart.
Thank you all for your continued prayers – I know God is listening and is
blessing me tremendously. I pray He is blessing you as well and you are
aware to them all. Take care and God bless.
Dec. 18, 2006
What would it be like to have 119 roommates, rice and beans practically every day, clothes that hardly fit with holes every where and be the happiest person in the world because someone came to visit you? This is just a taste of what it’s like at the Children’s Orphanage. This trip Ihave been trying to organize for about 2 months came and went. There were a total of 6 of us that brought clothes, coloring packages and some other tid-bits like gum and plastic rings (thanks Aunty Karen and Cous Dani).
We went to give them gifts for Christmas and they were the happiest kids just for the smallest of things. And if you had a free hand, they would come and grab it and hang on to you as tight as possible. I met a little girlnamed Jane, and we played with a tire pushing it back and forth with each other.
There was also a little boy although I never got his name. He grabbed both of my hands, climbed up my legs and did a flip off of me. When the other kids saw this they came over and were pushing each other out of the way like they didn’t want to share me. It was time for lunch and the other kids went, but this particular boy would have done it all day if we didn’t force him to go eat. Although we couldn’t communicate because of the language barrier, I think laughter was a universal language that day :o) I think these kids had a great time although I’m sure they will forget us because I
think they get visitors every so often. I’m okay with that, but my
point is I know I will not forget them as they have made a bigger impact on my life than I think I will be able to make on theirs.
Seems like a majority of the work I have put in to some of the
ministries has not been able to be used. This is a frustration but a common thing in a 3rd world country. Some of the work Krystle and I did at TULIP was not able to be used because of computer problems. It has been a bit frustrating, but I am learning to just accept and be patient. And it’s not all bad as I’m sure TULIP will be able to use the things we did for another time. The display I spent time putting together was never able to be used because it was too windy the day we went to Nairobi Chapel with the girls to promote their work to support raise for the girls to go to school. Even the
plans for the orphanage were tweaked due to our transportation circumstances (we got there about and hour and a half late). It’s things like these that is teaching me patience.
Krystle and I went to get our visas renewed and got to experience (yet again) “Kenyan authority system” but this time we were favored. When we went to Tanzania they stamped my passport 2 months and hers 3 months. So actually Krystle was okay ‘till January but not me...YIKES! But what this lady did was renew my visa for a month (with out making me pay) and I have to go back in January with Krystle. She even renewed it for a month and 3 days saying, “you came back on the 16th” which was absolutely not true but saying it out loud as if stating a fact for us all to believe. In my head I
was saying, “keep it shut, keep it shut” as for me and Krystle not to
spoil my “Irish luck.” Supposedly every thing should be fine when I return in a month, but since the system works however they want it to according to however they feel that day I’m a bit nervous. Please pray it all works out okay in January with no hassles or problems.
I’ve been mixed up in my days and actually been thinking this last
week, “I don’t want to return home back to working.” I have been enjoying this time off since everything has basically shut down for 2 weeks for everyone has gone home to “shags” for Christmas. We aren’t going to Yoland’s or Bob’s shags, we will be in Nairobi. Krystle and I have been to a couple of “end of the year” parties for Lifespring and CCP. Pastor Bob is kind of like my Kenyan dad and one day I was getting a bit of a lecture (but a real kind and small of a deal one) on “minimizing mistakes.” I accidentally took a picture of the airport (we are staying at Airport View and Wilson Airport is
behind the house…it’s the busiest airport in East Africa and you know I love to watch the planes) so I was told I was lucky to not have another Tanzania/Kenya border experience. Anyway, I think I may have had another “need to minimize my mistakes” experience at the Lifespring party. I was sitting with Pastor Bob and Gabriel (he is another staff member) and respect is a very important thing here, especially with Pastors. Example: I can call Pastor Bob, “Mr. Bobby, Bob, Mr. B,” basically anything I want at home.
But I definitely can not call him anything but Pastor Bob at church! So at the lunch party I said to Pastor Bob, “do you wanna roll” and he looked at me in confusion cuz I guess it was all jumbled together “doyouwannaroll.” They like to make fun of the way I talk all the time. But he finally gotit and said jokingly, “we say ‘Do. You. Want. A. Bun? We call them buns.’”
So my genius, very respectful mind responds with a mouth full of bread, “in America we call these buns” as I am rubbing my right butt cheek. Oopsies!
I can’t believe Christmas is a week away. Still, it does not feel like itbut I am looking forward to spending it with Bob, Yoland and their very dear family. I think we may be going to one of the national parks or something.
The day after Christmas Krystle and I will be heading to Masai Mara (not sure how to spell that) but we are going on a Safari to one of the best places!!! And then we will be going to the coast. I am looking forward to that. Next time I write I will get to tell you all about the lions and zebras and hopefully cheetahs that I saw :o) I wish you all a Merry Christmas with special times with your loved ones! God bless you all and Happy New Year as well.
Travel safely and baraka sana!!!
Dec. 3, 2006
Habari za asubuhi - good morning my rafikis. And if it's not good morning, well, I don't know how to say good afternoon yet. I have the day off so I thought I would take a moment to update you guys.
We are going on our 4th week now…it is definitely going by fast. I still struggle with some things but am doing my best to "get out of self" and make the most of this blink of an eye, 6 months moment. I guess it's natural to struggle with homesickness, feeling insufficient (as this is my first time doing anything like this) and just trying to understand the difference in a vastly different world. I just don't want that to be my focus. God is teaching me a lot through these struggles and I pray that I keep them with me here and when I return. For example, it is frustrating to me the inconvenience of everything here, vs. the states where if you want anything you can basically have it at any moment. And in this, maybe I have been replacing God with those things…I would have a relationship with God at my convenience, and not going to Him for everything. I hope this makes sense.
The places we are going to each week are starting to take some shape. At TULIP, the girls are really starting to open up to us. I am helping tutor them, although I think it's more the other way around. 3 of the girls are preparing to take a really big test in Nov. to pass high school, I believe. They are really bright, and I just basically guide them in their studies. And sometimes we help with lunch, lead devotionals and hang out with them when they are sowing (doing life skills)…I now have a life skill, I made a bracelet. Out of 6 of the girls, I believe 3 or 4 have lost a parent or both. And some have even lost some siblings. There is a lot of hurt in that house, but there is also a lot of hope. You can see they are glad we are there…some of them even thank us. Part of my frustration is being places and not feeling able to help…feelings of "what am I doing here, I don't know how to relate or help." A few people have encouraged me that maybe I'm here to offer love, smiles and hugs. I do pray I make a difference here, that these people would see Jesus and be encouraged that He loves them.
I had a sad experience last week with CCP. I went out with a social worker and the first house we went to the mother had TB, along with another child (so in my head I'm thinking, don't breathe, don't breathe) and then her 1 year old son had been sick for about 4 days. We took him to one of the clinic's (it's like a miniature hospital, very miniature) to get some help. He was so dehydrated he was sleeping with his eyes open as there was no fluid to help him close his eyes. I do not know if he is alive today. We then had to go to the other clinic (a bigger one), both of these are in the slum. And there were tons and tons of sick people waiting…looking very sick and worn down. Grace, the social worker I was with said that most of them probably had Aids.
On a lighter note, I saw the "great rift valley" last Saturday. I went with Pastor Bob and his friend to see Sande and Ladoma compete in their last cross country meet. As we drove, we were above the rift valley, then in it, then above it again. It was beautiful. I even saw some zebras, and I think gazelle. It was about a 4 hour trip, one way, and a big chunk of that time was spent on horrible dirt roads while your body is bouncing all over the place. I also need to mention that they have speed bumps on those roads. Quanini? Why???
I got my phone pick-pocketed last week. I thought it just dropped out of my pants in the matatu, but after speaking to some Kenyans I have come to accept that most likely it was stolen from my pocket!!! Krystle and I, it's quite funny actually, were in a serious conversation on the matatu. We passed our stop and ended up in the middle of "South B." We knew where it was, just never been there. As soon as we got off the mat, I was like, "where is my phone, where is my phone." And Krystle looked at me then took off running for like 3 seconds and then figured she couldn't save my phone. These guys on that mat were overly friendly, helping us with directions of where we needed to go, and kept switching seats with me. I'm thankful it was only a cheap phone, and not anything important. Getting on a matatu or citi hoppa (bus) is quite humorous. Yesterday as Krystle and I were waiting to get on a hoppa - it truly was a challenge. Imagine over 50 people, all black and then 2 Muzungu girls, pushing and pulling their way on to a bus, sometimes as it's moving. There is no "girls first here." It's "better luck next time" if you don't catch it. And the day before that we were catching a hoppa (minus all the people) but it was moving as we were getting on, Krystle knocked the conductor in the head with her bible as I got slammed in to the door behind her. I wish we could send a video of it all!
Another humorous story…we were on our way home and are waiting to catch a mat in "South C." As I'm writing this I can see some of you being concerned about the names of these places and sounding ghetto. It's just the name of an area of town on either side of Mombasa Rd…it's not ghetto at all :o) So we caught a mat and it was backed up with traffic…the worst I've seen it. So this chizi Matatu driver is going around traffic, facing oncoming traffic, driving on the sidewalk, everything. In my head I'm thinking "Yes, keep going around all this traffic!!!" I think I even turned around to Krystle and said, "This is my type of driving!" Honestly, I wanted him to keep going around all the traffic, even though after a while it was seeming a bit dangerous, especially when people on the side walk were dodging this chizi man! Then we caught another mat, and these guys had a system in the mat and bumping it with a neon green light inside. The guy running the mat (the one that collects our money) let me hang out the sliding door with him for a few seconds. It's what they do, so I wanted to experience it for myself :o)
Oh, and also a lady was trying to get her chicken back in her purse as it kept trying to get out. I have one thing to say…only in Kenya! :o) So we finally got to our destination, YaYa (it's like a mall), and all the stores were closed, well, almost all. So we got what we could and left and were hurrying home as it was getting dark.
We ran in to a guy, Jared, and to make a long story short, he accepted Christ that night :o) I've never seen anything like it and was just totally reminded of how big God is and how his timing is so perfect and precise. So please pray for Jared and that he would get connected with some good Christian men.
At Lifespring, I am assisting to organize/plan a camp for the youth. I am excited as I've already been able to give some input with my experience at camp before (thanks UCYC)! :o) And I am also supposed to be in charge of going to an orphanage on Christmas with gifts for the children…these would be donations for the kids that people from the church contribute.
Krystle and I got really excited to watch March of the Penguins so if you would like to send us some mail I'm sure that would be quite entertaining for us :o) I feel like I have so much more to write…words cannot capture what happens here. The funny things, and the sad things. This letter is getting quite long now so I'll be going now.
Mungu aku Bariki - God bless you.
Please let me know how we can be praying for you…we are praying for our friends and family on Thursday's.
Love always, Megan
Dec. 1, 2006
e-mail # 1
Habari my rafikis - hello, how are you my friends?
I'm a bit behind on e-mails but now am at a place w/Internet access(although it's extremely slow and testy) so will be able to communicate a bit better for the next 3 months 'till we move again.
There is much to share so I will do my best to write so you can get a good picture in your heads :o)
This is what our typical week looks like. Monday's and Tuesdays - we will go to TULIP - Tumaini Ladies Integrational Program. This is one of the more dangerous slums called Korogocho. Some of the things we'll be doing - leading devotionals (there are currently 7 girls living at TULIP), tutoring, doing house visits (in to the slum), sports and life skills (such as sowing, which they will probably teach us that, not the other way around!). TULIP is a program for girls 12-19 years old that get mentored and built up because of their background and where they come from. The slums smell real bad and there is trash burning everywhere…to get rid of it they burn it.
Let me give you some info about the slums in Nairobi (I believe there are at least 10). It's usually 1 room that is 8ft by 8ft (a room would be separated with sheets) constructed from mud and old and rusty iron sheets. Everything gets done in this tiny room…they bathe and then use that water to clean. They use small trash bags for the toilet and then toss it anywhere outside. There is extreme limited access to resources and basics needs like food, medicine, education and security. There is joblessness and a high level of crime, drugs, prostitution and violence. 70% of Nairobi's population lives in the slums, but occupy only 2% total area of Nairobi. The rent is usually 100 shillings per month-this is just over $1. Pray for Nairobi, and that we can make a difference here. And of course for protection but we go in the day so I don't feel scared.
I believe I mentioned in my 1st e-mail about people selling stuff on the street…well they call these kiosks and they are everywhere. In the slums, and even the nicer areas. It's how a lot of people make a living (so as the girls are sowing, this can be something they sell to make a living). I mostly see people selling fruits and veggies, nasty fish with flies all over them (looks like fish jerky), clothes, shoes and even bed frames. Oh I can't leave this out for your minds-cow legs with the hooves cooking!!! Ugghh!!!
Okay (sowa), now to Wednesdays. We go to CCP (Chosen Children of Promise). This is an orphanage in another slum called Kawangware. The day we went it was raining a ton. So we were sliding all over the place almost like on ice but in mud as we walked from house to house with the social workers. Our shoes literally were caked with mud. Mostly in the slums the kids yell, "how are you?" over and over and most don't even know what it means. And they will keep shouting it louder and faster until you respond either verbally or by waiving. The Kenyans have the best smiles. They will stare at you and when you say something or smile they get a smile from ear to ear. At one point Faith (the Kenyan social worker I was with) and I walked by a little girl (oh, by the way, there are people walking around everywhere all the time along with chickens, dogs, cats, goats and sheep and this girl started yelling "muzungu, muzungu (white person), come look at the muzungu" (but said it in Swahilli) and all these kids ran out and started waving. They love to come up and shake your hand.
Thursday's and Friday's we will be at LifeSpring Chapel (where we will be going to church) and looks like I may be doing some work to help with the youth. LifeSpring is made up of a huge tent (like a green circus tent but squarish), gravel for flooring and plastic chairs. It also reeks, but not as bad as most everywhere else, with b.o. The bathrooms don't have toilets but holes to where you have to squat.
(The weekends we have off :o)
I have adopted a new nickname - "chizi." This means "crazy." Pastor Bob's family has given it to me. For a week we stayed with them. His family has really made my transition here a lot easier. His
wife Yoland is my favorite person here, in fact I am calling her my Kenyan mama. Their kids are the best…Sande, he is 9. I am helping him play his trumpet. I am surprised how much I remember. In fact,
I wonder if the reason I did play (since I just loved it sooo much when I did play) was to be able to connect with him in this way. Ladoma (or Doma we call him) is 7. He and I have a special handshake. The 2 boys and I play football (soccer) together. And then there's Msimbi whom I'm certain is the funniest person on this whole earth (she is 3). This family is filled with laughter and joy and I already love them dearly. We will be back with them in Dec. through March. We ate with them all week so we ate Kenyan food. Most everything we eat is the same just sometimes something new mixed in every couple of days. Chipote is like a tortilla only thicker, sweeter and oilier. And ugali that is like a tasteless thick grits. Both you eat with like stew. I also had goat, but like 2 small pieces as I don't like the idea of it.
The food here is not too bad, but I'm getting used to it. One night I was helping peel potatoes with a knife. Rose (Yolands cousin, a very awesome girl our age and we are becoming friends) is peeling
one after another so easily. I say to her and Yoland, "Do you guys have a potato peeler?" "No, what's that?" Then after about 5 hard working potatoes, "okay, give Megan the potato peeler now!" .
Krystle and I ordered pizza last night and I was so excited that I was jumping up and down in the kitchen with her. Then we went bowling and to play foosball and pool with some people from Lifespring. I was the champ over all, except pool but Eric only won by default. They were quit impressed, and I enjoyed kicking the Kenyan's butts (especially the guys as they are the same anywhere - they don't like to lose, especially to a girl).
The kids speak with little British accents and the adults are a bit hard for me to understand. Our first night at Pastor Bob's we were tucking our mosquito nets in our beds. Mine was very small and all up in my face. Krystle's was nice but her bed smelt like pee (aka in Kenyan talk, wee). She said, "just think of it as camping." Well some of you know how much I just love camping but I think after this trip I might actually enjoy it :o)..Then at 5am every morning and like 4 other times in the day the mosque is yelling out over it's microphone across the city it's gibberish. We decided that in the states that would be a disturbance of the peace! Krystle said the first morning, "how rude!"
Now Krystle and I have been learning our way around town on matatus. They are like taxis but with like 14 people. It smells of diesel, b.o., rarely do you get a breath of fresh air. If I lived here I would want to be a matatu driver. I could honk my horn continuously, come inches away from other cars, people and drive around other cars if they are going to slow. When we get close to another car I yell to Krystle, "whack!" as I want them to hit the car. Well, just the other day we got "whacked" from behind - but not hard at all. If you want to get on a matatu, you have to be rude. Otherwise you'll just stand there waiting for your number all day. You literally have to push people out of the way and somehow shove yourself on there before it gets full. And if you have to cross the street to catch another…well here we don't play dodge ball like in the states - here we play dodge cars! It's really not bad, in fact it's actually really fun for me.
I apologize this is so long but hope you are getting a good picture. Please pray for me to adapt well to the culture as someone from church asked how I was adapting and I couldn't get the words out as I was so upset. It's been challenging to do the work they've assigned as I feel lost in it - not knowing how to do things that don't have much structure. And I’m also being challenged in a way that I'm not able to see or talk to my friends and family so easily. Please let me know how I can be praying for you!!!
Love and Blessings, Megan
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